by Jo Knight
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8 August 2021
One of the hardest challenges of going gluten-free is the social pressures around food. People assume you are not eating cake because its fattening and unhealthy (especially if you are under-weight due to coeliac disease). They may take this as a judgement on them eating the cake and want you to participate in sharing their "guilty secret". They may feel you are refusing their gift, their expression of love, that you are putting a "fad" above politeness and their feelings. Food is how we celebrate, it's how we often show love to others, it's how we come together and feel part of a tribe, whether our family, friends or our community. And this obviously doesn't stop at the cake - it is the whole buffet, the set menu at a wedding or work meal, or the home-cooked meal of family favourites.